We don't need counseling.... or do we ?

3 fights in one month, is better than 5 in one week. At least that's what i thought... We have had a couple of fights, no big deal we are still getting used to living together.

When we were planning the wedding i would get so annoyed by the custumes, "don't do that, it's bad luck, don't say that it's bad luck, don't don't don't! " Honestly i didn't like the planning of the wedding, i wanted to do the planning of our marriage, what things would be like the day after the wedding, how things would be the month after the wedding, the years. But just like everybody else, i got carried away with "which flowers best describe my personality as "mean heartless bitch" and "the bridemaids can not look better than me"... and let's not forget " I will make my own recuerdos".

Now thanks to having the perfect recuerdos and the perfect pictures of a wedding, we have fights, about a lot of little shit.

His way of dealing with my emotional insatability is to suggest counseling every time we have a fight but honestly to me that's getting old. I want to be able to be me, the crazy Lui that doesn't like to talk about feelings until she is ready, the lui that wants to just "forget" about certain things, and the lui that just wants to be understood and loved.

But he prefers to do the talking, to do the remembering, to know what i'm thinking, to always know what i'm feeling.

We are working on it... we don't need counseling, we just need to learn to live with each other...